Meadowmufn

We're not asking for things to be the way they were. I think things have changed significantly. We're realists and know that things will never be the same. All we're asking is for you to be open to dialog and see where it goes. Like Sheep said, there's no timeline involved. Relationships take time. And yes, they do take patience. I have advised Alex to have patience in all this (it's a virtue, after all) and let you decide when the time is right to talk. What worried me was that it didn't seem like you were even considering talking, so that's why I've been trying to encourage dialog between you two. I'm sorry if it seemed like pressuring, as that wasn't my intention. I just don't like seeing conflict between folks I like and admire. Your last post has given me some encouragement. A slow start is better than standing still. And if I haven't already mentioned it yet, welcome back!

Nice try, Bri. You obviously haven't seen my yard... LOL. However, in this economy, hedonism travel packages might be a nice little niche sideline for ya. People are gonna want to forget their miseries and at 20% off, folks can afford to.

As hard as it might be for some of you to believe, I don't enjoy conflict or drama. LOL. If there's any way for things to be resolved, I hope you guys will try. And Brian, how come I wasn't invited for a night of hedonism?

Very well said, Sheep. I concur.

Doc, Alex, you both should take Brian's advice. Alex has made it clear to me that he wants to resolve things and be friends again with you, Doc. If you are sincere in your apology, and I have no reason to believe you aren't given Sheep's and Brian's posts, you will take him up on it and TALK. Friendships need to be constantly worked on and nourished, through good times and bad. I will keep this thread open until everyone involved agrees they want it closed.

I think you should reconsider that decision (and probably read the rest of the thread before you comment). You two need to talk privately, openly, and honestly. It's clear there have been misunderstandings that need to be resolved.

Great! Drinks are all on Brian!

I understand where you're comin' from, but sometimes more open and honest communication can be done behind closed doors, that's all I'm sayin'.

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I wasn't planning on deleting it. My point was that I think this is the business of those involved and not the business of the rest of the HazzardNet members. If you would like me to create a private forum to facilitate discussion among those involved, I will do so.

Well, we'll have to agree to disagree on this, Brian. Somethings are best done in private. I'm sure there's plenty of private angst you (and I and plenty of others) have preferred to not air in public. I think y'all need to take this into IM or something. This isn't "How HazzardNet Turns".... LOL.

It's always nice to see familiar faces back again after a long absence, but I think you need to discuss this in private with all the individuals involved. Good luck!

I'm all ready to . How 'bout you? LOL.

I agree. Feel free to talk about it via PM if you can do so respectfully and civilly, but we prefer not to get into public political discussions on HazzardNet to avoid any heated exchanges that will inevitably result.

Ok, ok. Winner will get a bona-fide ghost radar. LOL. It'll help ya keep track of the one left as a ghost. http://www.ghostradar.co.uk/

I like the spook-off idea. The loser gets, as a parting (departing?) gift... GHOST POOP!! That's as charitable as I get tonight.

That'd be quite a surprise to Bill and Pat Garner!!

I was so busy slacking off that I forgot to post a Happy Birthday message. LOL. Tho', I did send a card and gift. Happy Birthday, Brian!

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Well, if that character won't cooperate, try another. Since I'm done with my story, I have a character you can borrow. Khee!

While I have no love for the press, they did not put the weed in his possession. They just reported what they found out. It was his personal choice and he got caught. Why he chose that, I don't know and personally I don't care. That's his business. I don't judge him. He's human and he makes mistakes. Celebrities are unfortunate in that they live most of their lives in public view. Many people think they are exactly like the characters they portray, but I can tell you that they certainly are not.

Well, it's not very long, but it's a good 'un, if I do say so myself. Khee!