polite
They are very polite because they are an island nation and everyone is so crowded onto such a small space. They HAVE to be polite or they'd wind up killing each other!
actually we can sometimes do more than listen. Sometimes we can give helpful advice from our own various experiences. But....we can always listen with a caring ear and a loving heart!
Right now I'm watching my Braves get their butt kicked by the Brewers ( my second fav. team.....for obvious reasons....HA! HA!) and I'm about to imbibe some Twisted Tea. Pretty good stuff but even at 5% ABV......no real kick......I'm going back to shine! LOL! ( translates to REAL beer!)
I would advise you to tuff it out until your debt is paid and then continue to tuff it out to save some and to give you time to do your 2nd full time job....finding another job!