Roger, you have my heart my friend! I'm so sorry for all this happening to you! I promise you , all you need to do is call me or contact me here, if you need a shoulder to lean on, cry on etc. or if you need a sympathetic ear to listen. I'm going to pm you my email, phone number ( I think you already have it though.), etc. This thread is still open and I'm sure everyone here is with you at this time! Please feel the comfort and power coming from all of us!