I kind agree with Jami. It has nothing to do with the mods. There's only so much you guys can do. I agree that every member has to find there place in the family. But for one group to sit there and tell another that they shouldn't act that way and them basicly make them feel like crap then in that same breathe do what they just put the others down for is wrong. I just don't understand how it's ok for one to do it and someone else it not.