This is not about the Dukes..but.....I need alittle advice.

[Gothic_Duke_72]

My younger sister and I have never seen eye to eye on alot of things..she has three kids 9, 11 & 12..I have one child 16 months..

She has ALWAYS had a mouth and hand problem when it came to her kids or anyone else for that matter..well alittle over a month ago we where at my mom's visting and my sister went after her oldest and repeatly hit him..my husband got in her face about it...well she turned and hit my husband non-stop..all my hubby did was push her back away from him...she fell backward into my mom's tub..

Even after that she went after her son for a second time, saying it was all his fault...well the next day I thought things had cooled off, but I recv'd a e-mail from her with pictures of her arm with marks on it..also she claims my husband had made a pass at her last summer...I have been with this man for 9 years and he has NEVER given me any reason not to believe or trust him..

My husband and sister NEVER got along at any time...I know she only made that statement because she was trying to make trouble for him..but she won't flat out admit it...this is not the first time she has done this before(trying to make issues between me and a boyfriend or friend) if she didn't like them...everyone wants me to just let it roll off my back but, I just can't do that..and she is making it seem that I'am immature about all this...

Even if she is my sister I just want her out of my life, I now realize that she will do whatever it takes....cross any line..meanwhile she still wants to act like nothing happened but, I just can't do that...I just cannot forgive her this time...

This still keeps me awake sometimes at night, I just can't make heads or tails out of it...why she would go that far???

Any advice anyone can give me on this???? Thanks

[DixieRose_00]

No woman should hit her kids like that for any reason whatsoever and no one else for that matter...you need to report her to children's services for child abuse and maybe possibly get a restraining order against her.

[JESSI DUKE]

From the sound of it your sister needs help. Her kids need to be safe.

It not fun to in house that is abusive. Try and get for your sister help. Take the kids away from the abuse. They need to know and feel loved.

As for sister going after your guy. It sound likes she jealous. She wants something she can't have. Proably to her you have a the perfect life. If she having provlems in her's and is not happy then no else is aloud to be. (At least that's how my mother-in-law and sister-in-law are). Just let her know that if she wants to cause problem with your family then she needs to but out and stay away from you. But let here that your family if something terrible goes wrong you'll be there. But otherwise stay out of your life.

[Gothic_Duke_72]

Thanks for answering me...she is still e-mailing and trying to call me, because she knows I'am not speaking to her...I know that is because she feels guilty about everything...

Child services have been called on her a few times already by the school and they did nothing about it...but I do believe she's jealous, her marriage went in the crapper last year, but they ALWAYS had big issues between them...and any guy she's ever been with has never worked out..

And I'am not saying I have the "Perfect" marriage, everyone has some issues at some points along the way, but for the most part it has been wonderful...so I guess she can't stand for anyone to be happy if she's not..so I guess it's best to keep her out of my life...

Thanks again everyone